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40 Days of Preparation for Easter

Feb22
2012
Written by Warner Smith

If you believe as do I that Easter should be the highest and holiest of days for Christians, then its celebration should be the grandest of our holidays. If you honestly evaluate current American church culture, however, you have to honestly admit that Christmas and not Easter receives our greatest celebratory effort.  While I do think that Easter and Christmas should be celebrated by Christians I do not think these two holidays should be celebrated alike. Easter is the greatest of commemorations for Christians.  Easter truly is a holy day, and should therefore be observed spiritually more than commercially.

One effort for Protestants to commemorate Easter would be to reclaim and reinterpret the Christian tradition of Lent.  The Christian tradition of Lent is the period of the Christian liturgical year that leads up to Easter. Traditionally the purpose of Lent was the preparation of the believer (through prayer, penitence, almsgiving and self-denial) for Holy Week.  Holy week being the week in which Lent ends and Maundy Thursday, Good Friday occur prior to Easter being celebrated. During Holy Week Christians should focus on the Passion of Christ, His Death and Resurrection.  Easter Sunday, the celebration of the Resurrection of Jesus Christ, should be the most holy of days for Christians.

While church attendance normally spikes on Easter Sunday, our traditional celebration of Easter has come to have much more to do with reuniting family members, eating at grandma’s, Easter baskets and Easter egg hunts, than with Christ’s resurrection.

Traditionally, Lent was observed for forty days. Various Christian traditions have calculated the forty days differently. The number “40″ was symbolically chosen to represent the time which Jesus spent in the desert prior to beginning of his public ministry, during which he was tempted by Satan.

The celebration of Lent was virtually universal in Christendom until the Protestant Reformation. While many Protestant churches do not observe Lent, I believe we should renew this tradition but with a particularly spiritual and prayerful application.

I suggest that over the 40 days leading up to Maundy Thursday, Good Friday and Easter we examine ourselves through prayer, Bible reading, meditation, and contemplation.  Let us examine our own lifestyles and consider whether the daily lives we are living are worthy of the great sacrifice which Jesus gave.  Where we find sin in our lives we need to confess and repent.

We also need to recognize that the Easter holiday is a time to communicate the good news of Jesus Christ with those with whom we work, relate, interact, and come into contact; so that we may utilize the Easter celebration as an opportunity for evangelism and not merely for our own selfish self-interests of giving gifts to our children, eating and being with our own families.

Therefore, I invite you to join me over the next 40 days of preparation for Easter.

Posted in Daily Devotions - Tagged Biblical Truth, Culture, Evangelism, Marriage and Family, Personal Holiness, Prayer, spiritual warfare

The Mission Strategy of the Cell Church

Sep12
2011
Leave a Comment Written by Warner Smith

Introduction

Imagine walking into the office of a local church and being greeted by a team of Christians who have one obvious and overwhelming goal, to win their nation to Christ.  The strategy for achieving their goal is plainly stated and centrally posted for all to see.  So many Christians have been steeped in the traditional American way of doing church that this may sound like fantasy.  However, this is the reality which Larry Stockstill found when visiting Faith Community Baptist Church, a cell group church in Singapore.1

The purpose of this article is to examine the cell church model and evaluate it as a missions strategy.  I will probe the underlying philosophical constructs and proponents of cell group churches.  In this pursuit I will seek to uncover the biblical principles upon which cell group proponents base their strategy. I will also examine the production of some contemporary examples as well as seek to determine strengths and weaknesses of the cell concept as a missions strategy. In the course of this discussion I will point out areas where this form seems best suited as well as any hidden or inherent dangers discovered in utilizing this strategy in part or in whole.

It is clear that small groups have been profitably used by the church for some time.  “The Pietists thrived on cottage prayer meetings.”2 A similar pattern emerges in the Anabaptist
movement,3 and John Wesley, possibly because of his Moravian background,4 used small groups in his class meeting model.  It has been concluded that the cell church model is not a new invention but simply the modern adaptation of Wesley’s method,5 but cell group advocates would contend that theirs is a return to the methods of the first century church.6

In this article I will also deal with the belief within the cell church movement that “the traditional church worldwide is slowly being replaced by an act of God” which will be “as powerful as the upheaval in 1517 during the time of Martin Luther.”7 Even those who disagree with the method, or the fact of an ongoing reorientation, agree that the notion of cell-driven churches will totally reorient our understanding of ministry.  To scrutinize these phenomena further one must first understand the problem cell advocates have with the traditional church and an explanation of cell church philosophy.

The Shortcomings Of The Traditional Church (as seen by advocates of the cell church)

In his seminal work, Where Do We Go From Here?, Ralph Neighbour forcefully contends that “the church structure we have duplicated over and over in this country is shockingly inefficient!”8 The traditional churches’ “Program Based Design is neither biblical nor efficient.”9 He cites three reasons that the “Program Based Design”10 model of traditional churches is inferior.  One, it is woefully inadequate in evangelizing the unchurched. Two, the traditional church is hindered from doing ministry by the weight of the programs it attempts to sustain.  Three, traditional churches are perceived to be preoccupied with buildings and money by the unchurched.

The Program Based Design church is particularly inept at reaching “‘Type B’ unbelievers”11 Because the church is constantly insulated from the unchurched, few traditional church members have any unchurched friends.  There is a major disconnect between the church which the world sees and the church’s view of itself.  According to Neighbour’s research, conducted in bars in Dallas, Texas, the “unbeliever viewed the church as a set of programs which required buildings, meetings and money.”12 This perception of the church by the unchurched is self explanatory when viewed along with the negligible time spent in personal evangelism in traditional churches and its overall relative impotence in evangelism.  Thus, the traditional church is deemed inadequate in both effectiveness and efficiency.

Because the traditional church focuses its energy on training people to carry out programs, and not to do ministry, there is an increasing strain placed on fewer and fewer people to do more and more, resulting in high burnout rates.  According to Neighbour, the traditional church involves no more than fifteen percent of its total membership as working volunteers and has a typical inactive membership of between forty and fifty percent.13 Because of this inherent design flaw both the leadership and membership in the traditional church busy themselves with the doing of church tasks in order to sustain programs to attract people.  All the energy of the church is given to programs, forgetting that the prime directive is the reaching of lost people.

Lastly, while accumulating huge debts in attempting to build more grandiose facilities to attract individuals from the shrinking pool of the already churched, the traditional church emphasizes money more than ministry.  Because of this, the unchurched individual’s perception that “all you want is money” is fed.  These factors cause large ratios of baptisms to dollars spent.  Another statistical advantage apparent in the cell church is the average number of members required to produce one convert. “The best traditional church ratio was twenty to one,”14 which seems particularly out of line when compared to the cell church which maintains a baptism ratio of one convert for every 4.5 members year after year.

In reaction to these shortcomings of the traditional church, cell church proponents have looked for answers from the church of Acts.  Dale Galloway, who has grown a cell group ministry in the Portland area, has organized his concept of church around the text of Acts 20:20.15

how I did not shrink from declaring to you anything that was profitable, and teaching you in public and from house to house, Acts 20:20 (ESV)

According to cell church advocates their study of the first century church has led them to the Biblical method for doing church originally intended by the Holy Spirit.  Therefore, those in the cell church believe they have rediscovered God’s will, and are returning modern Christianity to its intended form.

Explanation Of Cell Church Philosophy

Before the cell concept can be evaluated as a missions strategy, terms must be defined, some history must be understood, and some basic underlying strategies of those who are utilizing this method must be ascertained.

A cell church is defined as“a non-traditional form of church life in which small groups of Christians (cells) meet in a special way in their homes to build each other up in Christ and to evangelize the unsaved. It is a church which defines its cells as the basic building blocks of church life.”16

Great importance is placed both in the analogy of human cells and on the method in which some human cells divide.  “The term ‘cell’ is frequently used because of the analogy to a living organism composed of many cells that give life to the body.”17 Certain cells within the human body grow and then split in half, with each half becoming a new and vital cell.18 The analogy is carried further in the means of sustaining leadership for each cell as it divides from growth.  Just as the human cell contains all the genetic material necessary to sustain both new cells after division, the leadership of each new cell in the cell church is taken from within the previous cell, and leaders are constantly produced as growth occurs.
Worship in the cell church consists of a  “celebration” service. This gathering of all the members of cell groups within a region for an area-wide time of worship, praise and Bible teaching; is the largest assembly in a cell group church.19 Unlike the traditional church, however, the cell church requires that a critical mass of 120 participants be reached before corporate worship through celebration services is recommended.

As mentioned previously efforts to develop leaders must be a high priority in the cell church.  The network through which these leaders are developed and relationships maintained within a cell church is the application of what is understood as the “rule of twelve.”  Simply put, the principle is this: Jesus had twelve disciples whom he trained to lead the church, thus the church should follow His example and develop relationships through groups of twelves.  These twelves become the cell leaders’ disciples, or assistants; and as cells multiply, these relationships will enable continuity to remain within the groups.  Every week those being mentored meet with their own mentor and with the twelve for whom they are acting as mentor.  This process allows these relationships to grow and be maintained.20

Another competing form of cell organization is the “Jethro Structure.”21 Based on the instructions in Exodus given to Moses by his father-in-law Jethro.

17 Moses’ father-in-law said to him, “What you are doing is not good. 18 You and the people with you will certainly wear yourselves out, for the thing is too heavy for you. You are not able to do it alone. 19 Now obey my voice; I will give you advice, and God be with you! You shall represent the people before God and bring their cases to God, 20 and you shall warn them about the statutes and the laws, and make them know the way in which they must walk and what they must do. 21 Moreover, look for able men from all the people, men who fear God, who are trustworthy and hate a bribe, and place such men over the people as chiefs of thousands, of hundreds, of fifties, and of tens. 22 And let them judge the people at all times. Every great matter they shall bring to you, but any small matter they shall decide themselves. So it will be easier for you, and they will bear the burden with you. 23 If you do this, God will direct you, you will be able to endure, and all this people also will go to their place in peace.” Exodus 18:17–23 (ESV)

This model places cell leaders in responsible and accountable positions over ten people, zone supervisors over fifty people, zone pastors over one hundred, and district pastors over one thousand people.  This concept is seen as beneficial by those who are attempting to transition traditional churches to cell churches.  This is because the biblical text provides a philosophy of organization along with instructions for designing a framework which can be easily implemented into most existing organizational structures, regardless of their size.

A Brief History of the Cell Movement

The priority of cell churches has most prominently been advanced by David (Paul) Yonggi Cho and Ralph Neighbour, Jr..  Cho discovered the cell concept as he went through a period of severe trials.22 He grew his church in the traditional way at first to around 2,400 members, yet he admits now it was centered on “the Great Cho.”23 He did everything: he was the pastor, administrator, Sunday School director, and oftentimes the janitor.  Because he wanted to do everything his own way, he did the preaching, counseling, visiting, and outreach.  He was always on the move,24 and finally it caught up with him, as he collapsed in exhaustion.  Out of necessity, he discovered the concept of home cells for ministering to the church.  After the concept was originally rejected by his deacons and a period of embattlement and innovation,25 God raised up the largest church in world history on the Korean peninsula, the Yoido Full Gospel Church.

Half a world away, and roughly five years later, Ralph Neighbour went through his own trials.  Depressed by the lack of evangelistic success he observed in the churches of the Texas Baptist Convention, where he headed the state department of evangelism, Neighbour began to search for new methods of evangelism. Growing churches, he observed, were usually located in the newer housing areas where church members simply “visited the visitors.”  The unchurched in Texas were unreached, and there was no sign that this was ever going to change in the traditional church.  He spent many sleepless nights in his Dallas home, and soon began to write a strategy for an experimental church, a church which would find, or create, solutions to these problems.  The document soon grew to 68 pages.  He writes,

“One day, Ruth and the boys sat me down and said ‘Look! You’ve got to do more than walk the floor.  If we need to, we’ll all go to work to support the family needs.  Let’s go and do it!’ That was all I needed.  We began to pray about the location for the test, and God opened a door for us.  In 1969, a non- traditional church in Houston was formed with 38 courageous pioneers.”26

Neighbour believes that the Lord led him into the cell church.  Furthermore, others will wander away from the traditional church, and he is certain that their numbers will continue to increase over time. He writes:

“My purpose for sharing . . . is for you to understand why people migrate from the traditional church to the cell group church.  It’s not the movement of sick neurotics; it is the migration of thirsty hearts.  And it’s not to imply that everyone is called to be a part of the migration.  Most of those who have life investments in the traditional church probably will not do so.  It’s certainly not necessary to join a cell group church to be in the Lord’s will. Christ is among all His churches, not just some of them.  He stood among the Laodiceans and Thyatirans, and He is among all the problemed churches today as well.  But He has moved on to develop a younger Bride that is far more beautiful.  There’s a definite movement to report . . . a movement which will be significant through the end of this century.”27

Each of these pioneers have in common a passion for God and a pragmatism about evangelism.  Each discovered the validity of cell groups, seeking to minister to the needs of their people while encouraging them to do evangelism.  The traditional church simply did not meet the members’ needs in becoming disciples nor in equipping them to reach the lost.  These men have concluded that, unlike the traditional church with its “Program Based Design,” the cell concept allows all the energy to go into the people making it a “People Based Design”28 model.

Theology and Biblical Basis for Cell Group Churches

Pragmatism and practical concerns are not the only reasons that Neighbour, Stockstill and others advocate the superiority of cell group churches.  There are also biblical and theological convictions which they hold deeply.  Neighbour writes that “the Holy Spirit is the author of this (cell church) pattern.”29 In the New Testament “the word for ‘build’ used in Matt. 16:18 is oikodomeo.”30 According to Neighbour this word refers most often to construction using material called “living stones,” and describes the main work of the “living stones” themselves.

Neighbour believes that Jesus intended to be the builder of the church, but it is clear to cell church proponents that the “living stones” are empowered by Christ to share in the building up, or edifying, of all nearby “stones.”  In this manner people within the church are united by love, and the “stones” empowered by Christ will continually build each other up.  Proponents concur that this phraseology carried over into the church of Acts as well.  In Acts the church meets from house to house or oikos to oikos. Instead of interpreting this as the church’s humble beginnings, cell church advocates believe that this house to house method is the biblical technique for doing church in the New Testament.

While their interpretation of the biblical word oikos is correct,31 the infusion of so much theological meaning without a clear biblical instruction to do so is not the best example of biblical hermeneutics and could even be considered an example of isegesis.  While it is clear from the biblical text that the early church met from house to house, that this was done as a methodological principal is questionable.  One could argue as convincingly that this method was for conveyance, or security.

In his book The Second Reformation, William Beckham points out that Luther intended to reform worship along a threefold pattern.  First, was to use the Latin mass, and the second was to add German Liturgy. The third was a kind of worship which appears to be consistent with cell strategies. In Luther’s preface to The German Mass and Order of Service, he wrote:

“The third kind of service should be a truly evangelical order and should not be held in a public place for all sorts of people.  But those who want to be Christians in earnest and who profess the gospel with hand and mouth should sign their names and meet alone in a house somewhere to pray, to read, to baptize, to receive the sacrament, and to do other Christian works.”32

Luther continues to discuss what D.M. Lloyd-Jones pointed out Luther observed in the Anabaptists “a quality of life in their churches which was absent in the churches to which he belonged.”33 Beckham’s point is that the cell church is completing the reformation originally intended by Luther.

Beckham also believes that the cell church is a two-winged church which reflects the nature of God in his transcendence and immanence. Transcendence describes God’s nature as above and beyond man, while immanence shows that God’s nature is close and near.  Both of these attributes of God are expressed in Scripture and are reflected in the structure of the cell church.34 Churches have distorted these two truths by losing balance in either direction throughout the church’s history.  The need to validate both knowledge and experience cannot be done within the old traditional forms. “The solution is for the church to be the body of Christ through which [H]e lives and reveals [H]imself in transcendent greatness and immanent comfort.”35 Achieving this balance is believed by cell church advocates as more possible in cell churches than in traditional churches.

Cell Church Organization and Structure

Cells are limited to no more than fifteen individuals in size.  This enables the groups to shepherd individual needs with caring and compassion which becomes impossible in larger groups. Neighbour suggests that two types of cell groups be organized within a church: shepherd groups and share groups.  On one hand, shepherd groups form the “Basic Christian Community”36 because in them edification of the members occurs as the “one anothers” of scripture are carried out, and missionary activity is maintained as the needs of unreached people are kept in the forefront of the groups consciousness.  On the other hand, share groups are formed with three or four mature shepherd group members for the purpose of “connecting believers to hardened unbelievers,”37 the “type B” variety, so that they can attract them with the power of Christ.

As cells multiply new leaders, apprentices are constantly trained in leading and ministering to the small group.  They learn how to teach, counsel, witness, and share with those who are hurting.  Administration is kept to a minimum so that the needs of people continues to be the focus.

The Fervor of the Cell Church

Cell church literature clearly portrays a people with a zeal and fervor for winning the lost to Christ, especially through the cell strategy.  There is also a belief that the cell method is God’s chosen method and that he is generating a second reformation within the church.  This reformation will return the church to its intended form, reap the harvest to come and prepare the church for the coming persecution.  The traditional church is in need of discovering a new incarnational paradigm in which God’s presence, power and purpose are lived out with his people before the world. This manner of life is going to be accomplished at the cell level of the church, and those churches and denominations which do not make the shift will be left behind the cell church in growth.39 The most concise and effective description of the cell church’s view for the absolute necessity of reform is presented in Beckham’s analogy of the two-winged church.  “The creator once created a church with two wings: one wing was for large group celebration, the other wing was for small group community.”39 The church has cast off one wing and still expects to fly.  It is from this perspective — that the current church is only half of what it should be — that the cell church proponents draw the sense of urgency which permeates their writings.

The destination envisioned by these and others within the cell church universe is of a day soon in North America when metropolitan-area churches of 25,000 – 50,000 members will be common, dwarfing today’s so-called mega-churches.40

The Meta-Church Philosophy

Within the realm of renewing the church through small group ministry, and sounding less threatening than Neighbour, is Carl F. George.  In his book The Coming Church Revolution he offers the traditional church an alternative to the radical solution called for by cell church purists.  He calls it the meta-church.  Meta is a Greek prefix that means “change.”  Using the analogy of a caterpillar becoming a butterfly, George describes a period of transition in which the church must enter a “cocoon” before it can be transformed into a church equipped for the future.41 The meta-church is not so much a structure to impose on an existing church as it is a diagnostic tool which allows the church an option “when cell size ministry is not present”42 and member needs are not being met.  George writes that small groups are not what the church needs most, but rather the church most needs empowered, spirit-gifted leadership.  Small groups are the best means to develop this leadership.  He suggests that churches take what he calls the “Jethro principle” from Exodus and apply it to the congregation.  While making this application to the existing church structure, the awareness is raised of the need for members’ spiritual growth and development; existing structures are able to be transformed over a period of time and with limited controversy.  This approach has been used with success on the mission field when dealing with established churches of the Program Based Design.43 The meta-church model is more enticing to pastors of traditional churches because it is perceived as less intimidating and is more accepted than the more extreme cell church.44

Neighbour agrees that George’s meta philosophy is appealing; however, he insists that, while it may make the medicine needed by the church taste better, George’s additives which sweeten the taste may hinder the curative power of the medicine. Therefore, churches which opt for the lightened dose may find that, after having taken the medication, its headaches persist.45 Neighbour’s objection is that every cell church could be classified as a meta-church, but every meta-church cannot be classified a cell church.  Hence, Neighbour is afraid that George’s lesser form may pollute what he believes to be the form which the Holy Spirit has chosen to prepare for a future, worldwide harvest.  George and Neighbour agree on a destination, but they disagree on the method of arrival.  George is more accepting of steps in the right direction while Neighbour holds out for steps along the prescribed path back to the biblical model of Acts which he believes is God’s will for every church.

The preferred trend for the future of church planting as envisioned by these and other contemporary authors would be to plant cell group churches from the start and to shepherd established churches in beginning and implementing the meta-church model, at the very least, as an interim step to fully transitioning to the cell church.

Contemporary Examples

Although many examples of contemporary cell churches exist which could be studied to determine their effectiveness as mission strategy.  Four cell churches and one meta-church will be discussed here: cell churches in Mongolia, Singapore, Orlando and the Ivory Coast of Africa, and a meta-church in Milwaukee.

Perhaps the greatest value in evaluating the cell group church in as near an unbiased fashion as possible can be found in Mongolia.  The Christian church did not exist there until 1990;46 therefore, it has no traditional expectations of what church should be to encumber it.  A church was established in Erdenet by a church in Ulaanbaatar through the work of Swedish missionaries.  For six months they made weekly visits to establish a small group of about twelve teenage girls who meet regularly.  From this initial group the principals of Neighbour as outlined in his book Where Do We Go From Here? have been applied; and, as of 1996, a church of five hundred had grown.  According to David Rhodes who has written of his time in this Mongolian church, “discipleship has taken root,” and “evangelism happens in a natural and on-going way.”47 As groups grew to fifteen members, they were split.  Each cell leader had a deputy so that, when the cell was split, new leadership was ready to assume the new leader positions.  Most cells grew to fifteen in less than a year.  “After three years a ‘passing of the baton’ service was held, and a full-time compliment of five staff (occupying various positions) under a pastor has been appointed from within the body of the Church.”48 The leadership of this church is completely in the hands of the Mongolians.  Pastoral care is handled by the cell leaders, and the church planters meet with the cell leaders and teach them on a regular basis.  The experience of this church in Erdenet led Rhodes to conclude that future church plants within his Anglican denomination should “consider a cell approach very seriously.”49

One of the more successful contemporary cell group churches is First Community Baptist Church in Singapore.  This church was founded in 1986 by Lawrence Khong.  Within four years it had grown to 4,500 members. First Community baptizes over 800 people each year 50 and holds services in both English and Cantonese.  The church’s resourcefulness and commitment to evangelism was made clear in one of their most effective evangelistic meetings.  In one of the largest halls in the country, a banquet was held for the Buddhist parents of cell members.  After a traditional, ten-course Chinese dinner, a movie was shown, followed by a testimonial of a popular movie star from Hong Kong.  The pastor followed this by explaining the plan of salvation, and many came forward to receive Christ.51 This commitment to evangelism still persists in this growing church as evidenced by a document posted on the internet by Melvyn Mak, the deputy senior pastor of First Community.  He writes that two factors make up the cell agenda: edification and evangelism.  Edification, is a factor because, when the cells meet, they touch lives; and evangelization, because the cells must reach out and multiply. “If these two things are not present in a cell, then as far as we are concerned the cell agenda is not fulfilled.  We would close it or mix the members around.”52 The traditional office of deacon has been retained in this cell church’s structure and placed in its organizational chart at the level of zone supervisor,53 (See Appendix A) just above the level of cell group leader.  This church has been used as a model for other cell churches through the past writings of Ralph Neighbour.

A cell church which did not have such a fantastic beginning was attempted by Donald Clark in the Buenaventura Lakes/Meadow Woods section of Orlando, Florida.  Clark was seeking to ascertain the effectiveness of the cell model in planting new churches for the United Methodist Church.54 After two years the church had not grown to the “critical mass” of 120 people needed, as determined by cell church methods, to have a celebration service.55

In contrast, the Ivory Coast of Africa is an area where traditional ministry has failed to sustain church growth, and a cell group strategy would seem feasible.

“According to statistics of the International Mission Board of the Southern Baptist Convention, the Ivory Coast mission only retained 2.69 percent of those who were baptized.  The remaining 97.31 percent either left the church or became a member of other denominations. This represents the lowest retention rate of any mission in West Africa.”56

According to Ralph Andrews, who studied this problem in depth there are two main reasons for these alarming statistics. First, there was an absence of any small group ministry in the mission; and secondly, there had been no systematic follow-up of those who had been baptized.57 Today, in Abidjan, Ivory Coast, there is a cell church which has over 30,000 members and is planting churches among Francophone Africans as far away as Houston, Texas, and Paris, France.58 This remarkable turn around is attributed to the application of cell principles by church leaders and the resulting increase in evangelization and ministry by a newly mobilized laity.

A final example is Elmbrook Church, a meta-church in Milwaukee, Wisconsin.  This church was traditionally organized when, in the early seventies, it began to experience fast growth, attributed mostly to the Jesus Movement.  In reaction to the growth and the problem of absorbing the new members, the church examined the situation and decided to implement a cell type ministry.  Their cell ministry fits into the category of a meta-church and would not satisfy cell church purists because the small group meetings are not the “primary activity”59 of the church.  The church established Neighborhood Home Groups for the purposes of developing a sense of community assigning local responsibility and adequate oversight.  The Elmbrook church requires the leaders of each of these groups to meet the biblical qualifications of I Timothy 3 and Titus 1:6-8.  These groups were designed to replace traditional, mid-week services and typically meet on Wednesday evenings.  The church has grown and sustains more than one thousand members.60

Implications As A Missions Strategy

Do the approaches of cell group or meta-churches produce a sound missions strategy? The answer to this question will be sought through Aubrey Malphurs’ test for a good missions strategy.  Malphurs asserts that a strategy is good if it has a biblical mission, moves people from spiritual pre-birth to maturity, and clearly explains how the ministry will accomplish its mission.61 According to Malphurs test, cell churches are a sound missions strategy.  Cell churches begin with the biblical mission of carrying out the Great Commission among all the people in the world.  Secondly, cell churches are organized around the principles of bringing individuals through each stage of the Christian walk, beginning with establishing relationships prior to conversion and continuing to maintain mentoring relationships.  Finally, cell churches clearly explain their ministry objectives to each cell member through training and application by expecting personal as well as cell growth.

Furthermore, the cell strategy ought to be examined in light of the two mandates that Peter Wagner suggests are held in tension in any mission strategy.  These are the cultural and evangelistic mandates.  The cultural mandate, or social responsibility, suggests that doing good works for individuals or society is a biblical mandate for missions.  The evangelistic mandate places emphasis on reconciling those lost in sin to a holy God.62 The debate as to which must be underscored has gone on for many years.  In a properly functioning cell group, however, a balanced approach has been reached which can stress both together.  By meeting people at their point of need, the cultural aspects of missions are met and a relationship is begun that, over the course of time, can bring the desired evangelistic effect.  Beckham’s two-winged church approach, which emphasizes both the transcendence and immanence of God, encourages cell members to emphasize knowledge of God and experiences with God.  These considerations seem to meet Biblical standards in both word and deed.

Another set of principles held in tension which must be considered in the formation of a sound missions strategy is Spirit versus structure.63 Some ministry opportunities simply cannot wait.  It is in these time-sensitive areas that a cell church, which has properly empowered its people to minister and make ministry decisions, is better prepared for the mission setting than a traditional “wait until the board meets” or “wait until the missionary comes” structure.

The great variable between the traditional church model and the cell church is the investment of time and trust in the people.  The cell church trusts the people to respond appropriately and timely to ministry needs while the traditional church is less trusting of its membership’s response.  When a need is met within the group and people see God provide for someone in a real and personal way, the motivational impact to all involved is hard to over estimate. In this way cell ministry can give a sense of renewal and community to everyone involved, providing an impetus to move closer to Christ and to one another. Thus, the cell group church can, when properly functioning, disciple members through their response to ministry needs and responsibilities in the group.

Mission Strategy Strengths

A positive aspect of the cell church as a missions strategy is that “Americans have not been leaders in the development of cell churches.”64 This may make it an even more meaningful missions strategy in many countries which have an anti-American bias.  It cannot be said of cell group churches that American missionaries are attempting to impose another Western or American agenda on others.

The cell method is a good choice as a missions strategy in areas that are less open to the gospel.  Take the Erdenet example: because buildings and land were never a part of the original philosophy, the church could grow relatively unnoticed by those who might not approve of a Christian church.  By the time a building is needed, a church exists of three hundred with five local full-time staff, who should be better equipped and encounter less local government opposition than would a foreign missionary with Western monies to invest.  Yet another aspect of this strength is its financial feasibility.  Since there is no initial investment in property or buildings, start-up money can go toward a staff which invests its time in leading cells and training cell leaders.  This is a great advantage, particularly in major urban areas where the cost of property is prohibitive.

Another advantage is that the cell method is easily indigenous.  By its design foreign missionaries are not the center of church life.  Again in Erdenet, from early on the missionaries taught the week’s lesson to a young Mongolian, Bayraa,65 who then taught the cell group which gave this church indigenous leadership from its outset.  After the first several cells are functioning, local cell leaders take control.  This church within a relatively short time span, has members of the indigenous population in control.

Cell churches are also desirable in areas where persecution is a definite possibility.  The cell structure in the house churches of China have shown that this method is more resistant to persecution.  It has been estimated that when the Communists took over China, there were less than one million Christians, but that today, in spite of intense persecution, there are between twenty-five66 and sixty million67 Christians in China due to the large success of Chinese house churches.  Stockstill gives this resistance to persecution of cell group churches as his main motivation from the Lord to convert Bethany, the church he serves as pastor, from the traditional design.  He writes that he felt impressed in his mind that “a hostility will come against the body of Christ in America causing believers to make adjustments in the traditional ways they have met together”68 and that “with the cells in place, . . . even if the ‘trunk’ of the tree were to be cut down, the ‘roots’ of . . . cell groups would continue to flourish easily underground.”69 Cell life is not centered around one building; and, therefore, it is not as easily visible in the community to government officials.

Another strength of cell groups as a missions strategy is their nearly instant contextualization.  Once again its structure lends itself well to the local context because cell leaders are locals.  Thus the potential cultural quagmires many foreign missionaries get caught in are lessened.

A last advantage is one that applies to the individual who enters a cell group meeting for the first time.  Because the strategy is based on relational evangelism, the first time visitor finds the cell small and non-threatening, unlike attending a large traditional church for the first time.

Missions Strategy Weaknesses

With all of their positive attributes, there are still several problems that prevent accepting the cell group model as a universal missions strategy. Among these are risks of syncretism,70 the cell church’s form of government, claims of exclusivity as a biblical strategy, the uncertainty of the reproducibility of its first generation leadership and the potential for minor cults 71 to form in some cells.

One major problem facing any utilization of the cell group model is the danger of syncretism.  Trusting the people to minister under the power of the Holy Spirit is a characteristic discussed earlier of cell churches.  Giving total control to a group of fledgling Christians, however, does raise the possibility of syncretism and the lack of doctrinal responsibility in the minds of denominational missions agencies. Those who train the cell leaders must be certain that they place mature Christians in positions of leadership.  Cultural biases beyond the appropriate contextualization can creep into cell life unless they are vigilantly guarded against. In some cultures there are obstacles in inviting persons into your home which need to bear further consideration.  For example, a member of a higher social class would be very resistant to accepting an invitation to the home of someone of a lower class, or vice versa.  Missionaries working in countries which are experiencing social or political change also need to be aware of the possible mixed motives some people may bring to their new-found faith.  It is possible that some who have been disaffected are coming in hope of attaining leadership and prestige for themselves and their family in the new societal order.  Unfortunately, “Christianity is seen as Western (or affluent)”72 in many areas of the third world, and missionaries and church planters need to be certain that Christ and not an allure to Western culture is maintained as the central appeal.  As previously discussed Clark’s unsuccessful cell church plant in Florida faced the problem of an inadequate core of mature believers who shared his vision.73 It is this early phase of developing the nucleus of leadership which will lead the second generation of cells which seems most critical.  Here cell church planters must exercise determination and discretion in allowing cell leadership to move beyond the first generation.  When the competing concerns of being successful or being biblical are considered by a possibly immature cell leader, there is opportunity for compromise which could lead to a syncretised gospel.  The successful example in Erdenet was due to the time spent by the Swedish missionaries, along with a group from a church in Ulaanbaatar, over a six-month period developing that first group of twelve teenage girls.74 From these examples the absolutely critical nature of an initial commitment to train first-generation cells until leaders reach maturity becomes evident.

Another weakness of the cell concept is in its governance.  The level of authority and possible weak links of accountability that could be exercised from cell leaders up to church staff or senior pastors or vice versa is apparent.  By the nature of a top-down management structure, cell churches have a form of church government that is at odds with denominations which are traditionally congregational in polity.  While the cell church places great emphasis on training and maturing lay cell leaders, the organizational structure appears autocratic.  The topics for consideration flow from the Senior Pastor through the district pastors down to the cell leaders.  For instance, when David Yonggi Cho encountered his initial wave of seven obstacles, he took direct and appropriate actions without any apparent checks on his power.  The cell groups autocracy will be well received among some world cultures, such as the African culture of the Ivory Coast which possesses a “chief mentality.”75 However, the issue of church polity must be considered by Southern Baptists who, for the most part, practice congregational polity.  This will raise questions for mission agencies such as the International Mission Board.

Other areas of concern are the claims of exclusivity of the cell church.  Some cell church advocates have adopted a militant tone when referring to the traditional church.  Within their literature the cell model is presented as the only biblically correct model for doing church.  Near the end of his book, Neighbour concludes, “A church structure based on programs is unbiblical, inefficient and impotent in today’s society.”76 While he goes on to give a “10” to the saints who make up these churches, his displeasure toward program- based churches is clear, as evidenced by his giving up all attempts of transitioning Program Based Churches.  In explaining his reluctance to conduct such seminars in traditional churches, he writes, ‘their hopeless state depresses me every time I return to one of them.”77

There is little doubt concerning the abilities of Cho, or Neighbour, in leading Christian people by casting vision for the cell model, but, in its multiple incarnations it is unclear whether the leaders in each church would be as gifted or responsible.  Cho readily admits that obstacles arose during the transitioning of his church from a traditional to a cell group model (See note 10).  Furthermore, because mission strategies must be reproducible, and most successful cell churches are still in their first generation of leadership, the issue of reproducible leadership into the second generation is one which has not yet been fully explored.  Because the cell model seems to need strong leadership from one who can motivate followers while casting vision to become obedient to Christ’s commands to minister and evangelize, this issue will need future clarification.

A potential problem remains in this movements tendency to de-emphasize preaching and corporate worship.  The cells meet weekly, but the celebration services are not necessarily weekly events.  In beginning cell churches celebration services are delayed until there is a “critical mass of 120 to 200 persons . . . present in stable home groups.”78

Another weakness, as Cho admits, is that “minor cults” have been formed by some groups.  Cho suggests that many home groups have been created outside of churches or established denominations.  In some instances members of these groups begin to submit to the cell group leader instead of the pastor of their church.  Gradually, some of these groups have developed into “minor cults.”  Some leaders have exercised control of their members even telling them whom they should marry and when as well as if and when members are permitted to have contact with their unbelieving relatives.  Cho concedes that he does not have the answer to preventing this from occurring.  In fact, he says, “The Bible doesn’t have the answer either.”79 He concludes that each case depends on the person and the circumstances, and that this is why it is critical for cell leaders to be accountable to other leadership such as a denomination or a fellowship of pastors outside their own local church.

In conclusion, it is clear that cell groups are a method which can be extremely successful as a missions strategy, particularly in urban settings.  It is also clear, however, that the cell church is not a panacea which will right every wrong in the church and usher in a millennium of peace on earth.  The cell group is one way that a small group ministry can multiply.80 The cell concept is an important one for pastors to consider as they strategize ways to bring meaningful small group ministry to their church and for church planters to consider as they plant new churches.  As a global mission strategy it should be one of many options, chosen when circumstances of potential persecution, cultural norms, or urbanization make it advisable for the situation.  As a potential second reformation the cell church can be helpful in reminding churches of the two-wings of the church and can help us in acquiring methods for accomplishing our mission both to one another and to the unreached.  God the Holy Spirit, however, will continue to use whatever methods He chooses to grow the church of the Lord Jesus Christ.

End Notes

1. Larry Stockstill, The Cell Church (Ventura CA: Regal Books, 1998), 19.

2. John Mark Terry, Church Evangelism (Nashville: Broadman & Holman Publishers, 1997), 89.

3. Jim Egli “A Bird’s-Eye View of the Global Cell Church Movement” Cell Church Magazine 2 no. 3: 5

4. Brian C. Jenkins,. Nuclear Age Church: A Study of Recent Trends in Australia and New Zealand In the light of World Models and Scriptural Beginnings. (G.M. Elliott Library, Cincinnati, OH: Cincinnati Bible College & Seminary) Text-fiche. 13.

5. Louis M. Strickler, “From Class Meetings to Cell Groups: The Strength of Early Methodism for the Twenty-First Century Church” (D.Min. Diss., Asbury Theological Seminary, 1997) 134.

6. Dale E. Galloway 20/20 Vision: How to Create a Successful Church. (Portland OR: Scott Publishing, 1986) 125.

7. Carl F. George,  “What is a Meta-Church? (And how does it differ from a pure Cell Church?)” Cell Church Magazine. (1993) [magazine archives on line] Accessed 26 October 1999. Available from http:// www.touchusa.org/cellchurch/archives/volume2/issue2.htm; Internet.

8. Ibid., 17.

9. Ibid.,39.

10. Ibid., 39.

11. Ralph W. Neighbour, Jr. The Shepherd’s Guidebook. Rev. ed. (Houston: Touch Publications, 1990) 256.  “Type B” unbelievers have no interest in the Scriptures, and question their inspiration.  They are not open to Bible study, attending church services, and may even be hostile to the Christian Message.  This in contrast to “Type A” unbelievers who accept the validity of the Scriptures, have a Christian frame of reference, and are open to Bible study and the Christian message.

12. Ralph W. Neighbour, Jr. Where Do We Go From Here. (Houston: Touch Publications, 1990) 80.

13. Ibid., 49.

14. Ibid.,85.

15. Galloway, 20/20 Vision, 125. “Here is God’s own master plan for church growth in your church: ‘You know that I have not hesitated to preach anything that would be helpful to you but have taught you publicly and from house to house’ (Acts 20:20, NIV).”

16. Cell Church Website, [on line] Accessed 26 October 1999. Available from http://www.cell-church.org/; Internet.

17. Larry W. Wakefield,  “The Cell Church: A Paradigm for Evangelization in Mexico” (Ph.D. Diss., The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary, 1998) 21.

18. Karen Hurston, “The Importance of Small Group Multiplication” Global Church Growth 32 no.4 :13.

19. Neighbour. The Shepherd’s Guidebook. 251.

20. Stockstill,. The Cell Church. 95-104.

21. William A. Beckham The Second Reformation: Reshaping the Church of the 21st Century(Houston: Touch Publications,1995)188.

22. Paul Yonggi Cho Successful Home Cell Groups. (Plainfield NJ: Logos International, 1981)3-19.

23. Ibid.,11.

24. Ibid.,3-4.

25. Ibid.,31-47. After this decision was made Pastor Cho had seven key obstacles which he had to overcome. First, was that he had given the women no training to teach, so they had to feel their way along.  Secondly, there was a lack of discipline at the early cell meetings with members attempting to out do one another with the refreshments which they offered. Thirdly, outside speakers would be invited to the cells and receive offerings without the pastors knowledge or approval.  Fourth, at some cell meetings members began to borrow money from one another and to promote investment opportunities.  Fifth, as cell meeting attendance grew space became a problem. Sixth, leaders were tempted to borrow from the offering before it was turned in to the church. Seventh, was an attempted split involving three district leaders responsible for two thousand members each.

26. Ralph W. Neighbour, Jr. Where Do We Go From Here? A Guidebook for the Cell Group Church. (Houston: Touch Publications, 1990.

27. Ibid.,88-89.

28. Ibid.,45-47.

29. Ibid., 20.

30. Ibid,. 40.

31. Walter Bauer, A Greek lexicon of the New Testament, ed. And trans. William F. Arndt, F Wilber Gingrich, and Frederick Danker [BAGD], 2nd ed. (Chicago: University of Chicago Press, 1979),s.v. “?????.”

32. William A. Beckham The Second Reformation: Reshaping the Church of the 21st Century(Houston: Touch Publications,1995)116.

33. Ibid.,116.

34. Ibid.,83-86.

35. Ibid.,131.

36. Neighbour,. Where Do We Go From Here?. 194.

37. Ibid,. 194.

38. Beckham, Second Reformation, 24.

39. Ibid.,25.

40. George, “What is a Meta-Church?”

41. Carl F. George with Warren Bird, The Coming Revolution Empowering Leaders for the Future. (Grand Rapids: Fleming H. Revell, 1994) 26.

42. Wakefield, “The Cell Church,” 23.

43. Ibid.,25.

44. Ibid., 23.

45. Ralph W. Neighbour, Jr.,  “How New is Your Wineskin?(Understanding the Difference Between The Meta-Church and Cell Church Designs)” Cell Church Magazine. (1993) [magazine archives on line] Accessed 26 October 1999. Available from http:// www.touchusa.org/cellchurch/archives/volume2/issue2.htm; Internet.

46. David Rhodes,. Cell Church or Traditional?: Reflections on Church Growth in Mongolia. (Cambridge: Grove Books Limited, 1996) 3.

47. Ibid., 7.

48. Ibid., 8.

49. Ibid., 22.

50. Egli, “A Bird’s Eye View”5.

51. Neighbour, Where do We Go?. 27.

52. Melvyn Mak, “The Cell Group Agenda Defined”(1999) [Memo on line] Accessed 26 October 1999. Available from http://www.fcbccells.org/~cellc/current/ThuJan21140801CST1999.html; Internet.

53. Bill Beckham, “Making the Shift to Cell Church Ministry” Cell Church Magazine 2 no. 3: 5-7.

54. Donald J. Clark,  “New Beginnings: A Strategic Cell Group Model for New Church Development in Multi Cultural Urban Communities” (D. Min. Diss., United Theological Seminary, 1998)106.

55. Ibid.,111.

56. Ralph J. Andrews, Using Cell Groups to Effectuate and Sustain Church Growth in the Ivory Coast. (G.M. Elliott Library, Cincinnati, OH: Cincinnati Bible College & Seminar). Text-fiche. 2.

57. Ibid., 2.

58. Egli, “A Bird’s Eye View”5.

59. Joey Beckham, “I’m Still Confused: What is the Difference between the Meta-Church Model and the Cell Church Model?” Cell Church Magazine 2 no. 4:18.

60. C. Kirk Hadaway, Stuart A. Wright, Francis M. Dubose Home Cell Groups and House
Churches. (Nashville: Broadman Press, 1987) 113-128.

61. Aubrey Malphurs,. Strategy 2000: Churches Making Disciples for the Next Millennium. (Grand Rapids: Kregel Publications, 1996) 55.

62. Peter C. Wagner,. Strategies for Church Growth: Tools for Effective Mission and Evangelism.(Ventura, CA: Regal Books, 1989) 99-100.

63. Frank R. Tillapaugh,.Unleashing the Church. (Ventura CA: Regal Books, 1982) 79.

64. Wakefield, “The Cell Church,” 13.

65. Rhodes. “Cell Church or Traditional?” 9.

66. Jenkins, “Nuclear Age Church,” 131.

67. Egli, “Bird’s-Eye View,”5.

68. Stockstill, The Cell Church, 15.

69. Ibid, 15.

70. Webster’s New Universal Unabridged Dictionary (Avenel NJ: Barnes and Noble Books, 1994), s.v. “syncretism” the attempted reconciliation or union of different or opposing principles, practices, or parties, as in philosophy or religion.

71. Cho,.Successful Home Cell Groups, 90.

72. Ibid.,13.

73. Clark, “New Beginnings,” 107.

74. Rhodes,. Cell Church or Traditional?. 5.

75. Andrews, “Using Cell Groups,” 90.

76. Neighbour, Where Do We Go From Here? 404.

77. Ibid,.88.

78. Clark, Donald J., “New Beginnings,”111.

79. Cho,.Successful Home Cell Groups. 91.

80. Karen Hurston, “The Importance of Small Group Multiplication,” Global Church Growth 32 no.4 :13.

BIBLIOGRAPHY
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Beckham, William A. The Second Reformation: Reshaping the Church of the 21st Century.
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Galloway, Dale E. 20/20 Vision: How to Create a Successful Church. Portland OR: Scott
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George, Carl F. The Coming Revolution.  Grand Rapids: Fleming H. Revell, 1994.

Hadaway, C. Kirk, Wright, Stuart A., DuBose, Francis M., Home Cell Groups and House
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Malphurs, Aubrey. Strategy 2000: Churches Making Disciples for the Next Millennium.  Grand Rapids: Kregel Publications, 1996.

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Tillapaugh, Frank R. Unleashing the Church. Ventura CA: Regal Books, 1982.

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Dissertations

Clark, Donald J. “New Beginnings: A Strategic Cell Group Model for New Church Development in Multi cultural Urban Communities” D. Min. Diss., United Theological Seminary, 1998.

Oh, Sukhwan. “A Strategy for planting Cell Based Churches For The Emerging Asian
Americans: A Case Study Based on Oikos Community Church” D.Min. Diss., Fuller
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Strickler, Louis M. “From Class Meetings to Cell Groups: The Strength of Early Methodism for the Twenty-First Century Church” D.Min. Diss., Asbury Theological Seminary, 1997.

Wakefield, Larry W. “The Cell Church: A Paradigm for Evangelization in Mexico” Ph.. D. Diss., The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary, 1998.

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Andrews, Ralph J. Using Cell Groups to Effectuate and Sustain Church Growth in the Ivory
Coast. G.M. Elliott Library, Cincinnati, OH: Cincinnati Bible College & Seminary.
Text-fiche.

Jenkins, Brian C. Nuclear Age Church: A Study of Recent Trends in Australia and New Zealand In the Light of World Models and Scriptural Beginnings. G.M. Elliott Library, Cincinnati, OH: Cincinnati Bible College & Seminary. Text-fiche.

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Beckham, Bill. “Making the Shift to Cell Church Ministry” Cell Church Magazine 1 no. 2: 5-7

Beckham, Joey.  “I’m Still Confused: What is the Difference between the Meta-Church Model and the Cell Church Model?”Cell Church Magazine 2 no.4:18.

Egli, Jim. “A bird’s-Eye View of the Global Cell Church Movement” Cell Church Magazine 2
no. 3: 5

George, Carl F.  “What is a Meta-Church? (And how does it differ from a pure Cell Church?)” Cell Church Magazine. (1993) [magazine archives on line] Accessed 26 October 1999. Available from http://www.touchusa.org/cellchurch/archives/volume2/issue2.htm;
Internet.

Hurston, Karen. “The Importance of Small Group Multiplication” Global Church Growth 32 no. 4: 13.

Mak, Melvyn. “The Cell Group Agenda Defined”(1999) [Memo on line] Accessed 26 October 1999. Available from http://www.fcbccells.org/~cellc/current/
ThuJan21140801CST1999.html; Internet.

Neighbour, Ralph W. Jr.,  “How New is Your Wineskin?(Understanding the Difference Between The Meta-Church and Cell Church Designs)” Cell Church Magazine. (1993) [magazine archives on line] Accessed 26 October 1999. Available from http://www.touchusa.org/cellchurch/ archives/volume2/issue2.htm; Internet.

Website, Cell-Church. [on line] Accessed 26 October 1999. Available from http://
www.cell-church.org/; Internet.

APPENDIX “A”

APPENDIX “B”

Selected Cell Church Web Addresses

www.cellgroup.com
www.cellchurch.co.uk
www.ccn.org.hk
www.cell-church.org
www.bccn.org
www.smallgroups.com
www.crossearch.com/Church_and_Denominational_Resources/Cell_Churches
www.rnc.org.au/Missions/Article2.html
www.rnc.org.au/Missions/Brochure.html
www.rnc.org.au/Missions/OVERVW.html
www.nadei.org/cell-church/intensives.html
www.bccn.com/index.html

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In Search of A Christian Definition of Marriage

May17
2011
Written by Warner Smith

The Biblical Foundation for Marriage

Biblically, marriage was instituted by God in the garden of Eden.  As such, it is the oldest of human institutions and relationships.  Only one’s relationship to God has precedence to the marital relationship.

The first three chapters of Genesis record the origins of the marital relationship between man and woman. To properly understand these opening chapters, it is helpful to think of each chapter as attempting to give us three various perspectives of the same story.  Genesis must be understood as a collection of stories told to the children of Israel by Moses as he led the Children of Israel out of their Egyptian enslavement.  These stories were meant to explain why the children of Israel were so special that God would take notice of their plight in Egypt. To understand the biblical view of marriage, one must first understand mankind’s creation.

Now I want to focus on two verses:

26 Then God said, “Let us make man in our image, in our likeness, and let them rule over the fish of the sea and the birds of the air, over the livestock, over all the earth, and over all the creatures that move along the ground.” 27 So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them.  Genesis 1:26–27

I would be remiss as a Christian minister to not point out that in verse 26 God says, “Let us make man.” From the very beginning of Scripture we see a plurality in the Godhead. “Let us make man not in our image,” to whom is God talking?

Today’s Jewish rabbis point to the Shema: “Hear O Israel, the Lord your God is one God.”  As Christians, we believe that God is one in essence, yet three in personality – a tri-unity.  “In our image,” mankind (both male and female) have a body, soul and spirit, like our creator.  So in the opening chapter of Genesis we see that God has made man and woman in His image with His own triune features. That God builds His image into us from the beginning elevates us above all the rest of God’s creation. Verse 27 further teaches us that men and women are equally endowed with God’s image and equally valuable to Him.

After the fall, this original equality was broken and for the centuries and millennia to come man has dominated women. You see this societal organization in practically all tribes and cultures throughout history.  Originally, however, when God created man in His own image, male and female he created them, we were created to be co-regents in His world, after His image.

This joint rulership is evident in verse 28, “and God blessed them and said be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth and subdue it.”  He gives this instruction to both of them. They stand before Him as equal partners on the sixth day of creation.  They are partners who have each received God’s breath and been imbued with life and essence from God.  Peter will later say in 1 Peter that we are co-heirs.  Although God makes man and woman equal and values us identically, it is clear, however, from the beginning that He gives man a leadership role.

In Genesis chapter 2 we learn that Adam was created first.  In Genesis 2:7 “the Lord God formed the man from the dust of the ground and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life, and the man [Adam] became a living being.” Then the man, Adam, is given responsibilities. “The Lord God took the man and put him in the Garden of Eden to work it and take care of it” Gen. 2:15.

Is there some significance to the fact that man was created first?  Well, frankly, yes. When you read the rest of Scripture you understand that first means something. First, often indicates preeminence. When asked, Jesus said the first or foremost commandment was that we should love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, mind and strength. In other words, this commandment is preeminent. Also, in Scripture being the first born son was important because you received the blessing of the father. Being first born meant you got the birthright.  The Scriptures teach us to seek first the Kingdom of God and these other things will be added to us. First once more means something.

Does Adam being created first mean something? Yes. Being created first is declaring something about the social structure that was to occur between men and women. God creates the man first to help him understand that He has something special for him. His position of leadership is very important.

Consider 1 Timothy:

A woman must quietly receive instruction with entire submissiveness. 1 Timothy 2:11

Why? Ephesus was like a modern city.  It was wealthy; it was filled with liberal thought.  Its primary deity was a woman. If you worshiped in Ephesus you worshiped the goddess Diana. Many of the women in Ephesus were priestesses in the temple of Diana. If you grew up in Ephesus your whole life you would think God was a “she” and not a “he”.

As Paul introduced the gospel and established the Ephesian church he had to establish local leaders.  Paul determined that only men could be elders.  Paul goes on to say, “But I do not allow a woman to teach or exercise authority over a man, but to remain quiet” (1 Timothy 2:12).  This statement is primarily about the teaching position in the congregation. Why would you say this, Paul? He tells us in the next verse: “For it was Adam who was first created, and then Eve” (1 Timothy 2:13).  Paul is going back to the creation accounts of Genesis and is saying that God’s creation of man first was consequential and not merely coincidental. God gave man a leadership role and every man needs to understand this responsibility, especially as he relates to women.

Adam was given an occupation with responsibility prior to Eve’s creation. “Then the Lord God took the man and put him into the garden of Eden to cultivate it and keep it” (Genesis 2:15).

Although we don’t know how much time passed between Adam’s creation and Eve’s creation (because no one can say with certainty and precision exactly how long was each day of creation), the point is that God gave Adam this vocational assignment prior to Eve’s creation. Not only does God give Adam a job to perform, He also gives Adam a specific command to obey. He can eat from any tree except one. Adam has been given all this responsibility about the world before Eve is created.

The Lord God commanded the man, saying, “From any tree of the garden you may eat freely; 17 but from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil you shall not eat, for in the day that you eat from it you will surely die.” Genesis 2:16-17

God gave Adam spiritual instruction, but not Eve.  This is not a sign of Eve’s inferiority, but of the man’s responsibility. In Chapter 3, while Eve is talking with the serpent, we wonder why she does not simply tell the serpent what God has said.  Instead, she misquotes what God said.  Why? Because Adam did not adequately instruct his wife.  It was his responsibility.  Eve makes a terrible spiritual decision with Adam standing right beside her; knowledgeable, responsible, but unfortunately silent.  Sound familiar? Don’t we often stand by as people in our family, under our responsibility, make terrible spiritual decisions? All too often we are silent, just like Adam.  Like Adam we often are poor spiritual leaders.

Another example of the responsibility which God gave Adam is that he names the animals.  This is a signal of Adam’s dominion and leadership over creation.

19 Out of the ground the Lord God formed every beast of the field and every bird of the sky, and brought them to the man to see what he would call them; and whatever the man called a living creature, that was its name. 20 The man gave names to all the cattle, and to the birds of the sky, and to every beast of the field, but for Adam there was not found a helper suitable for him. Genesis 2:19-20

If I were to build an office building in downtown Atlanta and name it the Warner Smith Tower, I would have some authority there. In the Scriptures, naming something is a sign of authority. When God brought Abram out of Ur, He changed his name to Abraham. When Saul met Christ on the road to Damascus, Jesus changed his name to Paul.  Naming is a sign of a special relationship. When Adam names all the animals he is asserting his dominion.

18 Then the Lord God said, “it is not good for the man to be alone; I will make him a helper suitable for him. . . . 21 So the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon the man, and he slept; then he took one of his ribs and closed up the flesh at that place. 22 The Lord God  fashioned into a woman the rib which He had taken from the man, and brought her to the man. Genesis 2:18;21-22

The inclusion of this second creation story of how the woman was created is significant. God is revealing that there are significant differences between the man and the woman.  While each is created in God’s image, there are also going to be significant differences.  These profound differences between males and females are more than sociological, they are by God’s design. God is telling us these differences will be significant in how husbands and wives will relate to one another. Husbands and wives spend their lives in a relational dance. Marriage is the most basic organizational relationship on earth.

The Genesis of the Evangelical View of Marriage

The Puritans reacted against the dominant Catholic and Anglican understanding of marriage, which viewed sexual intercourse as directly related to man’s fall, and accepted Genesis 1:22 as the primary Biblical text governing the doctrine of marriage.  This viewpoint made legitimate procreation the main objective of marriage and wrongly elevated celibacy above marriage.  For the Puritans, however, the most important Biblical passage revealing God’s purpose in marriage was Genesis 2:18.  This passage showed that companionship, not procreation, was God’s principal purpose for marriage.  The Puritan understanding also rejected the idea that sexual intercourse was the sin that caused man’s ultimate transgression because, by their reckoning, God had established marriage in the garden of Eden prior to the Fall.  Therefore, since sexual intimacy in marriage was part of God’s plan for man before the Fall, it could not be less so following the Fall.

18 The Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.” 19 Now the Lord God had formed out of the ground all the beasts of the field and all the birds of the air. He brought them to the man to see what he would name them; and whatever the man called each living creature, that was its name. 20 So the man gave names to all the livestock, the birds of the air and all the beasts of the field. But for Adam no suitable helper was found. 21 So the Lord God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep; and while he was sleeping, he took one of the man’s ribs and closed up the place with flesh. 22 Then the Lord God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man. 23 The man said, “This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called ‘woman,’ for she was taken out of man.” 24 For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh. 25 The man and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame.     Genesis 2:18–25

As I understand it, verse 24-25 is the Biblical definition of marriage.  First, it clearly involves a man and a woman.  The idea of same sex marriage totally misses the point of the complementary differences which God has designed into man and woman.  Marriage involves a leaving, cleaving and weaving.  Both marriage partners, the man and the woman, must leave their parents and are to be an independent family.  Next, the man and woman are two individuals who must cleave to one another and become one flesh.  Finally, the man and woman weave together in their sexual union and have no shame in their sexual relations and shared nakedness.

4 Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the marriage bed is to be undefiled; for fornicators and adulterers God will judge. Hebrews 13:4 (NASB)

Notice that even in marriage there are limits on one’s sexual fulfillment; because, while in the marital relationship sex between the married partners is undefiled, sex between these married partners with some other married person will bring God’s judgment.

Jesus confirms this definition of marriage in Matthew 19:4-6, adding the phrase “Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate” (19:6b).  While there is no prescribed marriage ceremony in the biblical text, I want to point out that Adam and Eve were alone on the planet and that the witness and officiant for their marriage was God Himself.

Christian marriage also requires the couple to publicly present themselves as a married couple.  The only occasion I can find in Scripture where a married man and woman agree not to make their decision public is Abram and Sarai while in Egypt.

10 Now there was a famine in the land, and Abram went down to Egypt to live there for a while because the famine was severe. 11 As he was about to enter Egypt, he said to his wife Sarai, “I know what a beautiful woman you are. 12 When the Egyptians see you, they will say, ‘This is his wife.’ Then they will kill me but will let you live. 13 Say you are my sister, so that I will be treated well for your sake and my life will be spared because of you.” 14 When Abram came to Egypt, the Egyptians saw that she was a very beautiful woman. 15 And when Pharaoh’s officials saw her, they praised her to Pharaoh, and she was taken into his palace. 16 He treated Abram well for her sake, and Abram acquired sheep and cattle, male and female donkeys, menservants and maidservants, and camels. 17 But the Lord inflicted serious diseases on Pharaoh and his household because of Abram’s wife Sarai. 18 So Pharaoh summoned Abram. “What have you done to me?” he said. “Why didn’t you tell me she was your wife? 19 Why did you say, ‘She is my sister,’ so that I took her to be my wife? Now then, here is your wife. Take her and go!” 20 Then Pharaoh gave orders about Abram to his men, and they sent him on his way, with his wife and everything he had.     Genesis 12:10–20

While Abram’s situation is not identical to couples who live together as man and wife in secret without being officially married, this passage certainly illustrates why it is vital that marriage be made public.  Also, this text reveals that Abram’s choosing whether or not to make his marital contract public does not please God.  Making one’s marriage public based merely on one’s own convenience, even for Abram’s own personal safety, is not pleasing to God.

Another text reveals that the marital relationship has a dramatic impact on us spiritually.  Breaking faith in marriage prevents God from hearing our prayers, even though they are heartfelt and filled with tears.

13 Another thing you do: You flood the Lord’s altar with tears. You weep and wail because he no longer pays attention to your offerings or accepts them with pleasure from your hands. 14 You ask, “Why?” It is because the Lord is acting as the witness between you and the wife of your youth, because you have broken faith with her, though she is your partner, the wife of your marriage covenant. 15 Has not the Lord made them one? In flesh and spirit they are his. And why one? Because he was seeking godly offspring. So guard yourself in your spirit, and do not break faith with the wife of your youth. 16 “I hate divorce,” says the Lord God of Israel, “and I hate a man’s covering himself with violence as well as with his garment,” says the Lord Almighty. So guard yourself in your spirit, and do not break faith. Malachi 2:13–16 (NIV)

Malachi 2:14 teaches that marriage is a holy covenant before God. In the Jewish custom, God’s people signed a written agreement at the time of their marriage to seal the covenant. The marriage ceremony is meant to be a public demonstration of a couple’s commitment to this covenant relationship. It’s not the “ceremony” that’s important in a marriage, it’s the couple’s covenant commitment made before God and their fellow men. Unfortunately, too many spend more time and money planning their wedding than they ever spend preparing for their marriage.

In the traditional Jewish wedding ceremony, the “Ketubah” on which the Christian wedding is based, a marriage contract is read. In the contract, the husband accepts certain marital responsibilities, such as providing food, shelter and clothing for his wife, and promises to also care for her emotional needs. This contract is so important that the marriage ceremony is not complete until it is signed by the groom and presented to the bride. This demonstrates that both husband and wife see marriage as more than just a physical and emotional union, but also as a moral and legal commitment. The Ketubah is not in effect unless and until it is also signed by two witnesses.  Then and only then is the marriage considered a legally binding agreement.  Remember, in the Jewish understanding there is no distinction between something being legal and religious, both are combined in Jewish thought. The division of life into secular and sacred components is according to Greek understanding and is not biblical.

It is forbidden for Jewish couples to live together without this signed and witnessed marriage contract. For Jews, the marriage covenant symbolically represents the covenant between God and his people, Israel. Remember, God makes His covenant with His people publicly.

In Exodus 24:1-11 the Bible reads:

1 Then He said to Moses, “Come up to the Lord, you and Aaron, Nadab and Abihu and seventy of the elders of Israel, and you shall worship at a distance. 2 “Moses alone, however, shall come near to the Lord, but they shall not come near, nor shall the people come up with him.” 3 Then Moses came and recounted to the people all the words of the Lord and all the ordinances; and all the people answered with one voice and said, “All the words which the Lord has spoken we will do!” 4 Moses wrote down all the words of the Lord. Then he arose early in the morning, and built an altar at the foot of the mountain with twelve pillars for the twelve tribes of Israel. 5 He sent young men of the sons of Israel, and they offered burnt offerings and sacrificed young bulls as peace offerings to the Lord. 6 Moses took half of the blood and put it in basins, and the other half of the blood he sprinkled on the altar. 7 Then he took the book of the covenant and read it in the hearing of the people; and they said, “All that the Lord has spoken we will do, and we will be obedient!” 8 So Moses took the blood and sprinkled it on the people, and said, “Behold the blood of the covenant, which the Lord has made with you in accordance with all these words.” 9 Then Moses went up with Aaron, Nadab and Abihu, and seventy of the elders of Israel, 10 and they saw the God of Israel; and under His feet there appeared to be a pavement of sapphire, as clear as the sky itself. 11 Yet He did not stretch out His hand against the nobles of the sons of Israel; and they saw God, and they ate and drank. Exodus 24:1-11 (NASB)

Jesus also teaches us about marriage indirectly in his encounter with the Samaritan woman at the well.

7 When a Samaritan woman came to draw water, Jesus said to her, “Will you give me a drink?” 8 (His disciples had gone into the town to buy food.) 9 The Samaritan woman said to him, “You are a Jew and I am a Samaritan woman. How can you ask me for a drink?” (For Jews do not associate with Samaritans.) 10 Jesus answered her, “If you knew the gift of God and who it is that asks you for a drink, you would have asked him and he would have given you living water.” 11 “Sir,” the woman said, “you have nothing to draw with and the well is deep. Where can you get this living water? 12 Are you greater than our father Jacob, who gave us the well and drank from it himself, as did also his sons and his flocks and herds?” 13 Jesus answered, “Everyone who drinks this water will be thirsty again, 14 but whoever drinks the water I give him will never thirst. Indeed, the water I give him will become in him a spring of water welling up to eternal life.” 15 The woman said to him, “Sir, give me this water so that I won’t get thirsty and have to keep coming here to draw water.” 16 He told her, “Go, call your husband and come back.” 17 “I have no husband,” she replied. Jesus said to her, “You are right when you say you have no husband. 18 The fact is, you have had five husbands, and the man you now have is not your husband. What you have just said is quite true.” 19 “Sir,” the woman said, “I can see that you are a prophet. 20 Our fathers worshiped on this mountain, but you Jews claim that the place where we must worship is in Jerusalem.” 21 Jesus declared, “Believe me, woman, a time is coming when you will worship the Father neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem. 22 You Samaritans worship what you do not know; we worship what we do know, for salvation is from the Jews. 23 Yet a time is coming and has now come when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for they are the kind of worshipers the Father seeks. 24 God is spirit, and his worshipers must worship in spirit and in truth.” 25 The woman said, “I know that Messiah” (called Christ) “is coming. When he comes, he will explain everything to us.” 26 Then Jesus declared, “I who speak to you am he.”     John 4:7-26

Jesus reveals something very important, which many people miss. In verses 17-18, Jesus said to the woman, “You have correctly said, ‘I have no husband’; for you have had five husbands, and the one whom you now have is not your husband; this you have said truly.” The woman had been hiding the fact that the man she was living with was not her husband.

According to the New Bible Commentary notes on this passage of Scripture in John 4, Common Law Marriage had no religious support in the Jewish faith.  Living with a person in sexual union did not constitute a “husband and wife” relationship. Jesus makes plain that the co-habitation between this woman and the man with whom she was living did not make a marriage.   By telling this to a Samaritan, Jesus is teaching us that marriage transcends culture and custom.  Jesus is confirming the Jewish understanding that a marriage contract is binding only when signed by both bride and groom and witnessed and is required for the marriage to exist.  Remember Jesus’ first miracle occurred at a marriage.

Civil Law

In viewing marriage from the point of being obedient to civil authority, one must consider the following passage in Romans.

“Everyone must submit himself to the governing authorities, for there is no authority except that which God has established. The authorities that exist have been established by God. Consequently, he who rebels against the authority is rebelling against what God has instituted, and those who do so will bring judgment on themselves.” Romans 13:1-2 (NIV)

This text gives additional credence to the idea that a couple is married in the eyes of God when the couple is legally married based on the governing authorities to whom God says we must submit.

A problem with civil authority might arise if a government were to require couples seeking to be married to do something against the laws of God in order to become legally married. This is not currently the case, however, today in the state of Georgia.

Thus, in view of the teaching of this text in Romans, a correct Biblical position for a couple, as believers, would be to submit to the governmental authority and recognize the laws where they live as long as that authority does not require them to break God’s law.

According to Georgia law: Marriage is a civil contract, sanctioned by the state and accorded special treatment in the law in Georgia.  It is encouraged by the state as a matter of public interest and concern.  Marriage is favored by the state for the education, care and maintenance, support, control, and custody of minor children.

Until 2003, marriage was the only relationship in which sexual intercourse between consenting adults was lawful. Prior to 2003 it was a crime known as fornication for any unmarried persons to have sex even if it was consensual (the age of consent for sex in Georgia is 16). Although the Georgia Supreme Court has struck down the law making fornication a crime, it continues to be a crime known as statutory rape to have sex with someone (other than a spouse) who is under the age of 16, even if that person consents.

Many people today live together without the benefit of being married, making statements like, “a piece of paper won’t make any difference. It’s our love and private commitment to each other that matters.”  The bottom line is that although we may come up with reasons (or excuses) not to obey God, the life of faith requires surrender and obedience to our Lord. He will always bless obedience!

Marriage was instituted by God in the garden of Eden.  When Abram and Sarai denied publicly that they were married, God was not pleased – even though the purpose of their denial was to protect Abram’s life.  For God’s people there is no distinction between the secular and the sacred, no separation of what is legal and what is moral. In Jewish law, based on their understanding, marriage is not binding and effectual (in our terms legal) until it was made public by being witnessed by at least two other people besides the bride and groom.  This is one reason why Jesus could instruct the Samaritan woman that while she did live with a man, living together did not equal a marital relationship. Furthermore, if we are to be wholly obedient to God and submit to the civil authority over us, we must also accept that marriage in our culture is also a civil contract, sanctioned by the state and accorded special treatment in the law of Georgia.

“You will experience all these blessings if you obey the Lord your God.” Deuteronomy 28:2 (NLT)

Christian Marriage

Other than being against the teaching of Scriptures, another problem with those who co- habitate is that they pervert the God given role of being a husband.  Being a godly husband is difficult and is intended to demonstrate to the world how Christ loves His bride, the church.  Ephesians chapter 5 is very instructive here.

1 Be imitators of God, therefore, as dearly loved children 2 and live a life of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God. 3 But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God’s holy people. 4 Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk or coarse joking, which are out of place, but rather thanksgiving. 5 For of this you can be sure: No immoral, impure or greedy person—such a man is an idolater—has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God. 6 Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of such things God’s wrath comes on those who are disobedient. 7 Therefore do not be partners with them. 8 For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Live as children of light 9 (for the fruit of the light consists in all goodness, righteousness and truth) 10 and find out what pleases the Lord. 11 Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them. 12 For it is shameful even to mention what the disobedient do in secret. 13 But everything exposed by the light becomes visible, 14 for it is light that makes everything visible. This is why it is said: “Wake up, O sleeper, rise from the dead, and Christ will shine on you.” 15 Be very careful, then, how you live—not as unwise but as wise, 16 making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil. 17 Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord’s will is. 18 Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to debauchery. Instead, be filled with the Spirit. 19 Speak to one another with psalms, hymns and spiritual songs. Sing and make music in your heart to the Lord, 20 always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. 21 Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. 22 Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. 25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated his own body, but he feeds and cares for it, just as Christ does the church— 30 for we are members of his body. 31 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” 32 This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.     Ephesians 5:1–33

The context of Paul’s instruction on marriage is imitating God and living a life of love.  Among all of the various forms of sin which we have been delivered from as the children of light is sexual immorality.  In fact, according to this text we are not to have even the “hint of sexual immorality among us” because this is improper among God’s people.

The marital relationship is God’s answer to sexual immorality.  Many will deceive us, Paul says, about how important living purely before God is; but we are not to be influenced by them or even to mention their deeds among us.  Instead we are to “be very careful” in “how we live” and understand what God’s will is.

After reminding us that we must be filled with the Spirit, Paul then tells us to “submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.” He then continues by explaining what living a life of love looks like in the family.  Such a life is not immoral, but is careful in how we live. Paul tells us that in the marital relationship the husband’s role is the same as Christ’s role toward His bride, the church.  Husbands are to love their wives as Christ loves the church.  This is a very high bar indeed.

Practically, the man who lives with a woman without the benefit of a biblical and legal marriage is not thinking of her benefit, but is being selfish. He is not giving himself up for her, but is having his way with her while not giving her the benefits which are to be enumerated in the marriage contract. One who does not fully and completely become her husband is not accepting the marital responsibilities which include providing food, shelter and clothing and also promising to care for her emotional needs. If one is honest, he will find that being in a legally committed relationship is most often an emotional need for the large majority of women who find themselves in co-habitation with a man. Furthermore, a man who lives with a woman without being married to her is not attempting to make her holy, but is continuing to walk and lead her in the former ways of darkness.  This is not how a Christian man is to love himself, His Lord, or his wife.

Peter uses fewer words to make a similar point. He writes,

7 Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers. 1 Peter 3:7 (NIV)

For a Christian man to live with a woman without being married to her is not to be considerate of her.  Such a man is placing her reputation at risk for his own pleasure.  Such men make the same mistake Adam made with Eve in not giving her sufficient information concerning the forbidden fruit, thus setting the stage for a fall.  In the same way, living with a woman without marrying her is either a refusal or a serious error in judgment not to teach her the proper place God has given sex in the Christian life.  If the man and woman have children, these children are also done a huge disservice by the very adults who are supposed to raising them in the “nurture and admonition of the Lord.”

I would argue that any man cannot treat the woman he claims to love with respect while knowing her sexually and not being married to her.  I believe that unless it is public and legal it is not a biblical marriage.

Everything we do in the Christian life is public.  We have a public invitation in church because we want people to accept Christ publicly.  We have baptism in public and never in private precisely for this purpose.  We take communion together in public because we want everyone to understand that our relationship is lived publicly in a community.  So, too, we give and make vows of marriage in public.

Stepping out in faith and obedience requires us to trust in the Master as we follow His will. There is absolutely nothing we will give up for the sake of obedience that will compare to the blessing and joy of obedience.

Posted in Articles - Tagged Christian Maturity, Cohabitation, Culture, Fornication, Gender Differences, Living Together, Manhood, Marriage and Family, Promises of God, Same Sex Marriage, The Fall of Man

Bartow County GA Disaster Relief Update 2

May12
2011
Leave a Comment Written by Warner Smith

The following is information which I have been provided by David Franklin our Bartow Baptist Missionary related to the disaster relief efforts in Bartow County, Ga.

The Bartow County Disaster Relief Effort is moving into a new phase: identifying specific long term needs of each family. The goal is to create a family to church or churches relationship where a church or churches can help a family over the long haul. If your church is interested in more information contact David Franklin at the Bartow Baptist Association.

We have a coordinator of volunteers, Ray Carter. He is in the process of setting up a phone tree and has an email at bartow.vrt@gmail.com.

People can get help with chainsaw work, cleanup, long term assistance, and counseling, by calling 770-382-6652 or 770606-3826 or they may fax requests to 770-606-3827.

FEMA is at the Clarence Brown conference center. Individuals with needs should go this week. Some people who simply had trees blown down may qualify for some help from FEMA. Please tell anyone with any kind of storm related damage to go see FEMA. While no one can make any promises there may be some financial help that we did not anticipate.

The Bartow County Disaster Relief Effort is preparing to transition to more effectively meet long term needs. Help is needed in consolidating and moving from Grace Baptist this Saturday May 14, 2011 at 9:00 a.m.

Posted in Articles - Tagged Diaster Relief, Evangelism, Missions, Stewardship, Unchurched

What is Spiritual Warfare Part 2

Feb17
2011
Written by Warner Smith

In John’s gospel the concept of the “world” is the domain where Satan has influence. While it is true that God created the world because of Satan’s rebellion against God and Adam and Eve’s fall Satan has influence. In the garden of Eden remember what Satan did to Eve. He tempted her and she yielded to that temptation and she sinned and immediately she turned to her husband (who by the way was standing there beside her and could have stepped up at any moment and said no! But he didn’t) and as she yields to the temptation he yields to the temptation also.

At that moment something happens on the planet; the fall occurs. The entire planet that was made in the image of God and that God had said was good even that it was very good, in that precise moment all creation fell. This is why when you plant your garden you plant seed but the weeds grow. Has anyone here ever planted ragweed? Of course not! You don’t plant it, it just grows. Don’t you wish tomatoes would grow just as easily as weeds. Why does this not happen? Because of the fall! God has cursed the earth and he cursed the woman with pain in childbirth, and with being subject to men. Go back and read Genesis chapter 3.

8 They heard the sound of the Lord God walking in the garden in the cool of the day, and the man and his wife hid themselves from the presence of the Lord God among the trees of the garden. 9 Then the Lord God called to the man, and said to him, “Where are you?” 10 He said, “I heard the sound of You in the garden, and I was afraid because I was naked; so I hid myself.” 11 And He said, “Who told you that you were naked? Have you eaten from the tree of which I commanded you not to eat?” 12 The man said, “The woman whom You gave to be with me, she gave me from the tree, and I ate.” 13 Then the Lord God said to the woman, “What is this you have done?” And the woman said, “The serpent deceived me, and I ate.” 14 The Lord God said to the serpent, “Because you have done this, Cursed are you more than all cattle, And more than every beast of the field; On your belly you will go, And dust you will eat All the days of your life; 15 And I will put enmity Between you and the woman, And between your seed and her seed; He shall bruise you on the head, And you shall bruise him on the heel.” 16 To the woman He said, “I will greatly multiply Your pain in childbirth, In pain you will bring forth children; Yet your desire will be for your husband, And he will rule over you.” 17 Then to Adam He said, “Because you have listened to the voice of your wife, and have eaten from the tree about which I commanded you, saying, ‘You shall not eat from it’; Cursed is the ground because of you; In toil you will eat of it All the days of your life. 18 “Both thorns and thistles it shall grow for you; And you will eat the plants of the field; 19 By the sweat of your face You will eat bread, Till you return to the ground, Because from it you were taken; For you are dust, And to dust you shall return.” Genesis 3:8–19 (NASB)

And then God curses man and says by the sweat of your brow you will earn all that you earn.

The world as we know it is the result of Satan’s influence.

Whenever John speaks of the “world” he is speaking of the world’s system, which is fallen in its nature.

This is why Jesus says “while I was with them I protected them and kept them safe in the name you gave me, my prayer is not to take him out of the world but protect them from the evil one” (John 17:12). Please do not misunderstand, our job is not to be working on making a spaceship so we can all get out of the world, but to be constantly vigilant while we live in the world, and although we are in the world we should not allow the world to be in us. We are in it but not of it.

Now in John 17:20-21 we read “my prayer is not for them alone (it is not just of the disciples) I pray also for those who would believe in me through their message (so that’s for us) that all of them may be one Father just as you are in me and I am in you made they also be in us so that the world may believe that you have sent me.”

So Jesus brings together two things.Step one in our warfare plan is to realize that we do have an enemy and it is not one another. Jesus has and continues to pray for our spiritual protection and unity. Our unity is critically important to our ability to engage in spiritual warfare. In his model prayer Jesus taught us to pray for protection from the evil one and in his high priestly prayer Jesus also prayed for our protection from the evil one as well as our spiritual unity. Each of us need to understand our great need for protection, what it means to pray for protection from evil, and how it is accomplished.

Posted in Daily Devotions - Tagged Biblical Truth, Evangelism, Prayer, Present Day Martyrs, spiritual warfare
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